This Was From Me

“This Was From Me,” is a famous letter attributed to  St. Seraphim of Viritsa that was sent to his spiritual child, a bishop, who was in a Soviet prison at that time.  The consolation and counsel offered to the bishop can help anyone widen their perspective in a way that makes the impulses appear smaller and God’s providence even larger than life.

“Have you ever thought that everything that concerns you, concerns Me, also?  You are precious in My eyes and I love you; for this reason, it is a special joy for Me to train you. When temptations and the opponent [the Evil One] come upon you like a river, I want you to know that this was from Me.

I want you to know that your weakness has need of My strength, and your safety lies in allowing Me to protect you.  I want you to know that when you are in difficult conditions, among people who do not understand you, and cast you away, this was from Me.

I am your God, the circumstances of your life are in My hands; you did not end up in your position by chance; this is precisely the position I have appointed for you.  Weren’t you asking Me to teach you humility?  And there – I placed you precisely in the “school” where they teach this lesson.  Your environment, and those who are around you, are performing My will.  Do you have financial difficulties and can just barely survive?  Know that this was from Me.

I want you to know that I dispose of your money, so take refuge in Me and depend upon Me. I want you to know that My storehouses are inexhaustible, and I am faithful in My promises.  Let it never happen that they tell you in your need, “Do not believe in your Lord and God.”  Have you ever spent the night in suffering?  Are you separated from your relatives, from those you love?  I allowed this that you would turn to Me, and in Me find consolation and comfort.  Did your friend or someone to whom you opened your heart, deceive you?  This was from Me.

I allowed this frustration to touch you so that you would learn that your best friend is the Lord.  I want you to bring everything to Me and tell Me everything.  Did someone slander you?  Leave it to Me; be attached to Me so that you can hide from the “contradiction of the nations.”  I will make your righteousness shine like light and your life like midday noon. Your plans were destroyed?  Your soul yielded and you are exhausted?  This was from Me.

You made plans and have your own goals; you brought them to Me to bless them.  But I want you to leave it all to Me, to direct and guide the circumstances of your life by My hand, because you are the orphan, not the protagonist.  Unexpected failures found you and despair overcame your heart, but know that this was from Me.

With tiredness and anxiety I am testing how strong your faith is in My promises and your boldness in prayer for your relatives.  Why is it not you who entrusted their cares to My providential love?  You must leave them to the protection of My All Pure Mother.  Serious illness found you, which may be healed or may be incurable, and has nailed you to your bed. This was from Me.

Because I want you to know Me more deeply, through physical ailment, do not murmur against this trial I have sent you.  And do not try to understand My plans for the salvation  of people’s souls, but unmurmuringly and humbly bow your head before My goodness.  You were dreaming about doing something special for Me and, instead of doing it, you fell into  a bed of pain.  This was from Me.

Because then you were sunk in your own works and plans and I wouldn’t have been able to draw your thoughts to Me.  But I want to teach you the most deep thoughts and My lessons, so that you may serve Me.  I want to teach you that you are nothing without Me.  Some of My best children are those who, cut off from an active life, learn to use the weapon of ceaseless prayer.  You were called unexpectedly to undertake a difficult and responsible position, supported by Me.  I have given you these difficulties and as the Lord God I will bless all your works, in all your paths.  In everything I, your Lord, will be your guide and teacher.  Remember always that every difficulty you come across, every offensive word, every slander and criticism, every obstacle to your works, which could cause frustration and disappointment, this is from Me.

Know and remember always, no matter where you are, that whatever hurts will be dulled   as soon as you learn in all things, to look at Me.  Everything has been sent to you by Me,    for the perfection of your soul.  All these things were from Me.

A Good Marriage

A good marriage is like a spiritual castle. When husband and wife truly love and respect each other, no one can overcome them. If a man is unmarried and is attacked with lies and slander, his confidence and self-esteem may crumble; he may even begin to believe the lies said against him. But if he had a loving wife, she would reassure him with the truth, and so uphold his spirit. If a woman is single and is the subject of vicious gossip, she may feel that her reputation is being cut to shreds. But if she had a loving husband, his faith in her goodness and honesty would both comfort her and also impress those who doubted her. Similarly, a good marriage is like a buttress when a person’s religious faith if shaken. Single people who are beset by religious doubts may feel that the house of God is collapsing around them, and that they are helpless to prevent it. But married people can turn to their spouse to express those doubts; and it is almost certain that the spouse’s faith is sufficiently solid to allay those doubts. In the providence of God, when a husband is spiritually weak, his wife is spiritually strong; when a wife is weak, the husband is strong.

On Living Simply – St. John Chrysostom